Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Does this mean I'm a Classic?

So...here's a new way to try and figure out how old you are: Are the books from your childhood being rereleased as "classics?" In my opinion, they transformed my generation. Surely I'm not the only one who founded my very own neighborhood Babysitters Club?
December 31, 2009

Comeback Planned for Girls’ Book Series

“The Baby-Sitters Club,” which ran from 1986 through 2000, garnered an ardent following among preteenage girls throughout its run of 213 titles, with the publisher ultimately printing 176 million copies. The series, which followed the baby-sitting adventures and friendships of four 12-to-13-year-old girls — Kristy, Mary Anne, Claudia and Stacey (the cast expanded to eight main characters later in the series) — spawned several spinoffs, including a mystery series and a collection of books about Kristy’s little sister. All of the books are now out of print.

David Levithan, the editorial director at Scholastic and an editor of “The Baby-Sitters Club,” said the publisher decided to bring back the old series because of requests from fans who wanted a comeback.

In April the company plans to reissue repackaged and slightly revised versions of the first two volumes in one of its most successful series, “The Baby-Sitters Club,” in the hopes of igniting enthusiasm in a new generation of readers. And just as Mr. Lucas brought “Star Wars” back with a whole new arc of stories that began before the original series, Scholastic is publishing a newly written prequel, “The Summer Before,” by Ann M. Martin, the original author of “The Baby-Sitters Club” books.

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

Who Will it Be?

Tonight I just happened to flip to the Kennedy Center Honors as aired on CBS. The awards are given annually, recorded, and usually aired without much acclaim. While I don't know much about the history of the Kennedy Center Awards in particular, I was drawn in by the cast of recipients: Dave Brubeck, Mel Brooks, Grace Bumbry, Robert De Niro, and Bruce Springsteen.

Highlights included Brubeck's four sons joining the U.S. Army Jazz Ambassadors' rendition of "Take Five." "Glee's" Matthew Morrison serenaded the crowd with Mel Brooks' "Springtime for Hitler." Meryl Streep, Martin Scorsese, Edward Norton, Sharon Stone and Ben Stiller gathered together to congratulate Robert De Niro. For me, the moment of the evening came when Melissa Etheridge, John Cougar Mellencamp, Jennifer Nettles, Ben Harper, and Sting sang the classic hits of "the Boss." Jon Stewart relied upon his most credible source of praise for Springsteen - his Jersey roots. He combined fan worship with respectful admiration, topped off with his irresistible humor, "I can tell you what I believe and what I believe is this: I believe that Bob Dylan and James Brown had a baby." Each of the recipients seemed humbled and often moved to tears as the scope of the tributes they received.

So here is my question: Who will be our Kennedy Center honor-worthy recipients in 10, 20, 50 years? The more I think about it, the more I'm at a loss. So really, I'm curious as to what you all think.

Monday, December 21, 2009

Dear Summer Camp,

Dear Summer Camp,

You have failed me. After years spent looking forward to the 4th of July frisbee game of the year, Staff vs. the World, my relationship with the game has taken an ugly turn for the worst. You see, in college I enjoyed tossing the disc around with friends and feeling fairly confident with my frisbee "skills." Don't get me wrong, these "skills" are nothing to brag about. But, there was that year that I scored four points in one 4th of July game. We'll call that the highlight. Other years have not been as victorious, but I do have yet to be on a losing team. You see, I have spent many years loving this game that I first learned at Summer Camp.

Well, that dream was crushed into a million little pieces yesterday. It turns out that the "games" we play at Shrine Mont don't involve ANY of the actual rules, strategy, or terminology. I have no idea what a "cup" looks like on a frisbee field. My only previous interactions with cups have involved liquid. I wouldn't know a pick if it hit me in the face - which it did yesterday. The difference between a "Ho-stack" and "V-stack" sounds like an STD. I am familiar with zone defense, only because of my love for football. I also didn't know that people could be referred to as "poppers." Needless to say, my debut in the Frisbee Winter League was less than stellar. Lucky for me, the Disc Space Invaders (my team) are the most forgiving, patient group of people I have ever met. And thank God (and yes I do mean literally, thank you to God,) I scored one redeeming point. I think it has bought me enough time to read every guide to frisbee strategy I can find before our next game.

So here's my question, Summer Camp - what is that game we play on the 4th of July that involves a plastic disc, lots of yelling, and guys running around shirtless? Pending any stellar recommendations, I'm simply going to refer to it simply as Shrine Mont Folly.

Love,

Disillusioned Counselor


Tuesday, December 8, 2009

It's a "classic" for a reason

With the completion of grad school, I find that I am often paralyzed by the choice of which book to read next. What a grand problem to have! After reading Pat Conroy's latest novel, I decided to pick up the classic, "The Prince of Tides." The language was rich and evocative. The narrative was twisted - almost too much so, even for a good novel. The cyclical nature of generational disfunction is impressive, while disturbing. The characters are endearing and unforgettable. Even if you're late to jump on board, I highly suggest you take a ride on the Wingo shrimp boat.


"It was my mother who taught me the souther way of the spirit in its most delicate and intimate forms. My mother believed in the dreams of flowers and animals. Before we went to bed at night as small children, she would reveal to us in her storytelling voice that salmon dreamed of mountain passes and the brown faces of grizzlies hovering over clear rapids. Copperheads, she would say, dreamed of placing their fangs in the shinbones of hunters. Ospreys slept with their feathered, plummeting dreamselves screaming through deep, slow-motion dives toward herring. There were the brute wings of owls in the nightmares of ermine, the downwind approach of timber wolves in the night stillness of elk. But we never knew about her dreams, for my mother kept us strangers to her own interior life. We knew that bees dreamed of roses, that roses dreamed of the pale hands of florists, and that spiders dreamed of luna moths adhered to silver webs. As her children, we were the trustees of her dazzling evensongs of the imagination, but we did not know that mothers dreamed.
Each day she would take us into the forest or garden and invent a name for any animal or flower we passed. A monarch butterfly became an 'orchid-kissing backlegs'; a field of daffodils in April turned into a 'dance of the butter ladies bonneted.' With her attentiveness my mother could turn a walk around the island into a voyage of purest discovery. Her eyes were our keys to the palace of wildness."

Thursday, December 3, 2009

commentary

Today I flew from Austin to Alexandria for my ordination to the priesthood this coming Sunday. I was sandwiched in the "B" seat in the back of the plane. The gentleman to my left was reading "The Complete Guide to the Bible." The gentlemen to my right was reading "The Big Book of Bible Bloopers." The scope of their Biblical studies was entertaining enough to begin with. But, given the context of where I was headed, I couldn't help but think that it was particularly humorous. I wondered what their respective reactions would have been if I had told them they were sitting next to a priest. I can't help but laugh at the many possible metaphorical interpretations of where I'm headed.
Too entertaining not to share :)






































Monday, November 16, 2009

Professionally Awesome

The day is November 16th. Current temperature outside my window is 67 degrees, cloudless sky, partial breeze. This morning I did some sermon prep work and ate lunch on the patio at Austin Java. I was the only one on the patio, the locals claiming that it was "too cold," wrapped up in fleeces and scarves. If this is my new "cold," I will continue to do the happy dance all winter long.
Reason #2 why today is one for the books: Redskins won yesterday and the Cowboys lost. Obviously, dress code for the day = "Professionally Awesome." Meaning, I'm making friends all over the place by causing people to smile as a result of my Redskins-jersey-wearing-to-work ethic.

Life is Good.

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Challenge: Differing Generational Views of Ambiguous Acceptability

Can a Boy Wear a Skirt to School?

Joshua Lott for The New York Times

ACCEPTANCE From left, Zakary Skinner, Tadeo Valdez-Celaya, Deshan Howell and Desiree Olshaskie, photographed at Rincon High School in Tucson where differences are protected.

Published: November 6, 2009

BY now, most high school dress codes have just about done away with the guesswork.

Girls: no midriff-baring blouses, stiletto heels, miniskirts.

Boys: no sagging pants, muscle shirts.

But do the math.

“Rules” + “teenager” = “challenges.”

If the skirt is an acceptable length, can a boy wear it?

Can a girl attend her prom in a tuxedo?

In recent years, a growing number of teenagers have been dressing to articulate — or confound — gender identity and sexual orientation. Certainly they have been confounding school officials, whose responses have ranged from indifference to applause to bans.

Last week, a cross-dressing Houston senior was sent home because his wig violated the school’s dress code rule that a boy’s hair may not be “longer than the bottom of a regular shirt collar.” In October, officials at a high school in Cobb County, Ga., sent home a boy who favored wigs, makeup and skinny jeans. In August, a Mississippi student’s senior portrait was barred from her yearbook because she had posed in a tuxedo.

Other schools are more accepting of unconventional gender expression. In September, a freshman girl at Rincon High School in Tucson who identifies as male was nominated for homecoming prince. Last May, a gay male student at a Los Angeles high school was crowned prom queen.

Dress code conflicts often reflect a generational divide, with students coming of age in a culture that is more accepting of ambiguity and difference than that of the adults who make the rules.

“This generation is really challenging the gender norms we grew up with,” said Diane Ehrensaft, an Oakland psychologist who writes about gender. “A lot of youths say they won’t be bound by boys having to wear this or girls wearing that. For them, gender is a creative playing field.” Adults, she added, “become the gender police through dress codes.”

Dress is always code, particularly for teenagers eager to telegraph evolving identities. Each year, schools hope to quell disruption by prohibiting the latest styles that signify a gang affiliation, a sexual act or drug use.

But when officials want to discipline a student whose wardrobe expresses sexual orientation or gender variance, they must consider antidiscrimination policies, mental health factors, community standards and classroom distractions.

And safety is a critical concern. In February 2008, Lawrence King, an eighth-grader from Oxnard, Calif., who occasionally wore high-heeled boots and makeup, was shot to death in class by another student.


Click here to read the rest of the article

Monday, November 9, 2009

Day Off: Austin-Style

76 degrees on Friday, November 6th in Austin. So I took the opportunity to stroll down South Congress street where there are lots of local businesses and eateries. Lunch of choice: The Mighty Cone. The Mighty Cone is one of the many "airstream" establishments in Austin that specializes in one or two menu items. I enjoyed a delicious chicken and avocado pita, in a cone, none the less, followed up by a cupcake from "hey cupcake!" It was an affordable way to enjoy a delicious lunch outside both with mystified tourists and locals. Keepin' Austin Weird, one day at a time!

Monday, November 2, 2009

King Ball: Destination Austin, Texas

Yesterday we had the first Sun One gathering, which is the Austin Area Episcopal Youth Groups. With temps in the upper 70s and crystal clear Texas skies, we played a rousing game of kickball to get everyone warmed up. Then came the greatest game EVER - Kingball. Though plagued with the plethora of rules and unfamiliar landscape of cones, the youth were troopers. We had a rousing hour long game, in the midst of which Diocesan Bishop Andy Doyle granted a few group absolutions to free everyone from being tagged. Even Bishop Doyle had fun, as his tweet indicated, "At Sun 1 episcopal youth event at Zilker, Austin...I luv being bishop!" Well done Diocese of Texas, you are indeed worthy of the greatest game EVER.

Thursday, October 29, 2009

Wonderful Advent Resource

I was privileged to spend 3 days this week at Clergy Conference for the Diocese of Texas. Among time well spent with wonderful people, and thought-provoking continuing education opportunities, I was particularly excited by the offerings from the new Diocesan Bishop, The Rt. Rev. Andy Doyle. The teaching portion of his bishop-duties are particularly important to him. For example, one offering is an amazing Bible Study he has created in the form of a blog. While he has done others, this one speaks to the lectionary texts for this Advent drawn from the Gospel of Luke. It includes links to pieces of art inspired by the Gospel of Luke as well as other textual resources. So as he has graciously share, I'm excited to pass it along to all of you. Enjoy!

Sunday, October 25, 2009

virginia

Meet Virginia

She doesn't own a dress
Her hair is always a mess,
If you catch her stealin' she won't confess
She's Beautiful.

Smokes a pack a day, wait,
That's me, but anyway
She doesn't care a thing
About that hey,
She thinks I'm beautiful
Meet Virginia

She never comprimises,
Loves babies and surprises,
wears high heels when
she exercises
Ain't that beautuiful
Meet Virginia

Well she wants to be the Queen
Then she thinks about her scene
Pulls her hair back as she screams
"I don't really wanna be the Queen"

Daddy wrestles alligators
Mama works on carborators
Her brother is a fine mediator
For the president
And here she is again on the phone
just like me hates to be alone
we just like to sit home
and rip on the President
Meet Virginia, Mmmm...

Well she wants to live her life
Then she thinks about her life
Pulls her hair back as she screams
"I don't really wanna live this life"

She only drinks coffee at midnight
When the moment is not right
Her timing is quite, unusual
You see her confidence is tragic, but her
Intuition magic And the shape of her body?
Unusual

Meet Virgina I can't wait to
Meet Virginia, yeah eh yeah hey hey hey

Well she wants to be the queen
then she thinks about her scene
Well she wants to live her life
then she thinks about her life
Pulls her hair back as she screams
"I don't really wanna be the queen"
I, I don't really wanna be the queen
I, I don't really wanna be the queen
I, I don't really wanna live this
-Train




Friday, October 23, 2009

Texan Adventures

Pictured above is one of the many authentic Texas landmarks between Austin and Navasota, Texas where I travel once a month for a retreat. On the way home today, I could resist any longer and stopped to check it out. I was admittedly more intrigued by the "trash" aspect than the "treasure" component. But, it turns out the owner of the shop makes art out of pieces of scrap metal that would otherwise be trash. It was great fun to examine what pieces of junk used to once be while looking at the finished product. If you're ever in Carmine, Texas, I certainly recommend stopping by.

Monday, October 19, 2009

Quite the Example

Today we were fortunate to host the funeral for Judge William Wayne Justice. I did not know him personally, nor know of him until recently. But I was struck by his landmark achievements. More so, I was touched by the turnout of fellow politicians and members of the Texas Court system from all over the state. It was clear that beyond legal rulings, he touched many lives through his own example. Just to give you an idea, his obituary is below. Hopefully, you too will be inspired!


October 16, 2009

William Wayne Justice, Judge Who Remade Texas, Dies at 89

William Wayne Justice, a federal district judge who ruled on ground-breaking class-action suits that compelled Texas to integrate schools, reform prisons, educate illegal immigrants and revamp many other policies, died Tuesday in Austin. He was 89.

Luz Probus, his judicial assistant, confirmed the death.

Judge Justice had presided over cases in Austin until shortly before his death, having taken senior status there in 1998.

Judge Justice was a small-town lawyer active in Democratic Party politics when President Lyndon B. Johnson appointed him to the federal bench of the Eastern District of Texas in 1968. Sitting in Tyler, Tex., he came to be called the most powerful man in Texas by those who agreed with his largely liberal decisions and the most hated by those who differed.

In a 1998 column in The Fort Worth Star-Telegram, Molly Ivins made what she called the “painfully obvious point” that Judge Justice had lived up to his name, saying he “brought the United States Constitution to Texas.”

The same year, Lino Graglia, a constitutional law professor at the University of Texas at Austin, said in an interview with The Dallas Morning News, “He has wreaked more havoc and misery and injury to the people of Texas than any man in the last 25 years.”

If Judge Justice seemed high-handed, it was partly because he believed that the founding fathers had wanted judges to seize and command the higher ground. Perhaps not surprising, people reacted with hate mail, death threats, ostracism and bumper stickers demanding his impeachment.

“The plain fact of the matter is that the majority is sometimes wrong,” Judge Justice declared in an interview with The New York Times in 1982.

Frank R. Kemerer, who wrote “William Wayne Justice: A Judicial Biography” (1991), said in an interview on Wednesday, “He had a transcendent value, which was to advance human dignity and provide a measure of basic fairness.”

In many cases Judge Justice challenged official intransigence by applying the known law of the land, as he did in 1971 when he told school districts in East Texas to obey the law by integrating. Even 17 years after the United States Supreme Court ordered schools to be integrated, it was not unusual for students in all-black schools to have outhouses rather than indoor restrooms.

Other cases lacked precedent. In 1978, Judge Justice struck down a Texas law that let public school districts charge tuition for the children of illegal immigrants. When the ruling was upheld 5 to 4 by the Supreme Court in 1982, millions of children had the right to a free education.

“There was absolutely no case law on it,” Judge Justice said in an interview with The Star-Telegram in 1998. “I found no case, no statute that covered the point of law that I had to decide. So I guess I made my own little contribution.”

To many, Judge Justice defined the concept of activist judge. In the early 1970s, he had his law clerks — many of them from top law schools like Harvard and Stanford — sift through hundreds of inmate letters complaining of cruel and unusual punishment in Texas prisons. He pulled out eight and consolidated them into a single action, then appointed a lawyer from the NAACP Legal Defense and Educational Fund Inc., William Bennett Turner, to handle the case. He asked thefederal Justice Department to join with the inmates as a friend of the court.

The state defended a prison system with two doctors for every 17,000 prisoners, where 2,000 inmates slept on the floor and where inmate trustees, known as building tenders, essentially ran the cell blocks through coercion. It contended that Texas had, in fact, the best penal system in the nation.

In 1980, after a trial that lasted nearly a year, Judge Justice ordered major changes in the state’s prison system. In 1987, he held the state in contempt because the promised progress had been so meager.

In 2002, after Texas had spent hundreds of millions of dollars to build and improve prisons, Judge Justice released the Texas penal system from federal oversight.

Lawyers interested in assembling class-action suits sought out Judge Justice’s court. In 1973, he made a far-reaching decision to require Texas to repair “truly shocking conditions” in its juvenile detention system. Other important rulings included enforcing laws on integrating public housing and enforcing laws on bilingual education.

William Wayne Justice was born in Athens, Tex., on Feb. 25, 1920. When he was 7, his father, Will, a flamboyant lawyer, made him a partner; he even changed the nameplate above his office door to “W. D. Justice and Son.”

Judge Justice had a series of illnesses as a child, including chronic whooping cough. He later suggested that the experience might have made him more compassionate toward the unfortunate. He was also moved by the hungry, jobless men he saw hanging from boxcars during the Depression, he said in an interview with The Washington Post in 1987.

He graduated from the University of Texas and its law school, served in the Army for four years in Asia during World War II and then went into private law practice with his father.

His father was a good friend of Ralph Yarborough, who became a United States senator from Texas. Mr. Yarborough persuaded President John F. Kennedy to appoint Judge Justice a United States attorney in 1962, then did the same with President Johnson to help him become a federal judge.

“I had a pretty good idea what I was getting into,” Judge Justice told Texas Monthly in 2006.

It is unclear whether his expectations included his wife’s being refused service by beauticians and carpenters refusing to work on his house in Tyler once they realized who owned it.

Judge Justice is survived by his wife, the former Sue Rowan; his daughter, Ellen Justice; and a granddaughter.

After threats arising from the epic school desegregation battle at the beginning of his career, Judge Justice did not ask for armed guards. Instead, he took up taekwondo, the Korean martial art that resembles karate.

“It was a great way to take out my frustrations,” he told The Times. “You build up a lot of hostilities sitting on the bench all day.”


Monday, October 12, 2009

Monday's Soundtrack

Today seems like a good day to share some of the lesser known "classic" songs about Jesus. Check them out!

Jesus the Mexican boy
by Iron & Wine

Jesus the Mexican boy
born in a truck on the fourth of July
gave me a card with a lady naked on the back
Barefoot at night on the road
Fireworks blooming above in the sky
I never knew I was given the best one from the deck

He never wanted nothing I remember
Maybe a broken bottle if I had two
Hanging behind his holy even temper
Hiding the more unholy things I do

Jesus the Mexican boy
Gave me a ride on the back of his bike
Out to the fair though I welched on a $5 bet
Drunk on Calliope songs
We met a home-wrecking carnival girl
He's never asked for a favor or the money yet

Jesus the Mexican boy
Born in a truck on the 4th of July
I fell in love with his sister unrepentantly
Fearing he wouldn't approve
We made a lie that was feeble at best
Boarded a train bound for Vegas and married secretly

I never gave him nothing I remember
Maybe a broken bottle if I had two
Hanging behind his holy even temper
Hiding the more unholy things I do

Jesus the Mexican boy
Wearing a long desert trip on his tie
Lo and behold he was standing under the welcome sign
Naked the Judas in me
Fell by the tracks but he lifted me high
Kissing my head like a brother and never asking why


Jesus.... the missing years
By John Prine

It was raining. it was cold
West bethlehem was no place for a twelve year old
So he packed his bags and he headed out
To find out what the worlds about
He went to france. he went to spain
He found love. he found pain.
He found stores so he started to shop
But he had no money so he got in trouble with a cop
Kids in trouble with the cops
From israel didnt have no home
So he cut his hair and moved to rome
It was there he met his irish bride
And they rented a flat on the lower east side of rome...
Italy that is
Music publishers, book binders, Bible belters, money changers,
Spoon benders and lots of pretty italian chicks.

Charley bought some popcorn
Billy bought a car
Someone almost bought the farm
But they didnt go that far
Things shut down at midnight
At least around here they do
Cause we all reside down the block
Inside at ....23 skidoo.

Wine was flowing so were beers
So jesus found his missing years
So he went to a dance and said this dont move me
He hiked up his pants and he went to a movie
On his thirteenth birthday he saw rebel without a cause
He went straight on home and invented santa claus
Who gave him a gift and he responded in kind
He gave the gift of love and went out of his mind
You see him and the wife wasnt getting along
So he took out his guitar and he wrote a song
Called the dove of love fell off the perch
But he couldnt get divorced in the catholic church
At least not back then anyhow
Jesus was a good guy he didnt need this shit
So he took a pill with a bag of peanuts and
A coca-cola and he swallowed it.
He discovered the beatles
And he recorded with the stones
Once he even opened up a three-way package
In southern california for old george jones

The years went by like sweet little days
With babies crying pork chops and beaujolais
When he woke up he was seventeen
The world was angry. the world was mean.
Why the man down the street and the kid on the stoop
All agreed that life stank. all the world smelled like poop
Baby poop that is ..the worst kind
So he grew his hair long and thew away his comb
And headed back to jerusalem to find mom, dad and home
But when he got there the cupboard was bare
Except for an old black man with a fishing rod
He said whatcha gonna be when you grow up?
Jesus said god
Oh my god, what have I gotten myself into?
Im a human corkscrew and all my wine is blood
Theyre gonna kill me mama. they dont like me bud.
So jesus went to heaven and he went there awful quick
All them people killed him and he wasnt even sick
So come and gather around me my contemporary peers
And Ill tell you all the story of
Jesus...the missing years

We all reside down the block
Inside at ....23 skidoo.

Thursday, September 24, 2009

Let's Talk about Sex, BA-BY!

Bottom line: we can pretend like our youth are not exploring their sexuality, but the truth is that they are. The way I see it, we have two choices: 1. To pay attention to them by being supportive and answering questions. 2. To continue to let stereotypes about sexuality fester by letting youth feel ashamed about asking questions, leading to increasingly damaging consequences. I'm just sayin....
September 27, 2009 NYTIMES MAGAZINE PREVIEW

Coming Out in Middle School

Austin didn’t know what to wear to his first gay dance last spring. It was bad enough that the gangly 13-year-old from Sand Springs, Okla., had to go without his boyfriend at the time, a 14-year-old star athlete at another middle school, but there were also laundry issues. “I don’t have any clean clothes!” he complained to me by text message, his favored method of communication.

When I met up with him an hour later, he had weathered his wardrobe crisis (he was in jeans and a beige T-shirt with musical instruments on it) but was still a nervous wreck. “I’m kind of scared,” he confessed. “Who am I going to talk to? I wish my boyfriend could come.” But his boyfriend couldn’t find anyone to give him a ride nor, Austin explained, could his boyfriend ask his father for one. “His dad would give him up for adoption if he knew he was gay,” Austin told me. “I’m serious. He has the strictest, scariest dad ever. He has to date girls and act all tough so that people won’t suspect.”

Austin doesn’t have to play “the pretend game,” as he calls it, anymore. At his middle school, he has come out to his close friends, who have been supportive. A few of his female friends responded that they were bisexual. “Half the girls I know are bisexual,” he said. He hadn’t planned on coming out to his mom yet, but she found out a week before the dance. “I told my cousin, my cousin told this other girl, she told her mother, her mother told my mom and then my mom told me,” Austin explained. “The only person who really has a problem with it is my older sister, who keeps saying: ‘It’s just a phase! It’s just a phase!’ ”

Austin’s mom was on vacation in another state during my visit to Oklahoma, so a family friend drove him to the weekly youth dance at the Openarms Youth Project in Tulsa, which is housed in a white cement-block building next to a redbrick Baptist church on the east side of town. We arrived unfashionably on time, and Austin tried to park himself on a couch in a corner but was whisked away by Ben, a 16-year-old Openarms regular, who gave him an impromptu tour and introduced him to his mom, who works the concession area most weeks.

Openarms is practically overrun with supportive moms. While Austin and Ben were on the patio, a 14-year-old named Nick arrived with his mom. Nick came out to her when he was 12 but had yet to go on a date or even kiss a boy, which prompted his younger sister to opine that maybe he wasn’t actually gay. “She said, ‘Maybe you’re bisexual,’ ” Nick told me. “But I don’t have to have sex with a girl to know I’m not interested.”

Ninety minutes after we arrived, Openarms was packed with about 130 teenagers who had come from all corners of the state. Some danced to the Lady Gaga song “Poker Face,” others battled one another in pool or foosball and a handful of young couples held hands on the outdoor patio. In one corner, a short, perky eighth-grade girl kissed her ninth-grade girlfriend of one year. I asked them where they met. “In church,” they told me. Not far from them, a 14-year-old named Misti — who came out to classmates at her middle school when she was 12 and weathered anti-gay harassment and bullying, including having food thrown at her in the cafeteria — sat on a wooden bench and cuddled with a new girlfriend.

Austin had practically forgotten about his boyfriend. Instead, he was confessing to me — mostly by text message, though we were standing next to each other — his crush on Laddie, a 16-year-old who had just moved to Tulsa from a small town in Texas. Like Austin, Laddie was attending the dance for the first time, but he came off as much more comfortable in his skin and had a handful of admirers on the patio. Laddie told them that he came out in eighth grade and that the announcement sent shock waves through his Texas school.

“I definitely lost some friends,” he said, “but no one really made fun of me or called me names, probably because I was one of the most popular kids when I came out. I don’t think I would have come out if I wasn’t popular.”

“When I first realized I was gay,” Austin interjected, “I just assumed I would hide it and be miserable for the rest of my life. But then I said, ‘O.K., wait, I don’t want to hide this and be miserable my whole life.’ ”

I asked him how old he was when he made that decision.

“Eleven,” he said.

To read the rest of the article: http://www.nytimes.com/2009/09/27/magazine/27out-t.html?_r=2&pagewanted=print

Monday, September 21, 2009

Cultural Sensitivity

This is a great article from Sunday's NYTimes on the importance of cross-cultural sensitivity in hospitals. It's an easy an obvious transfer to other American institutions, yet one that we still refuse to acknowledge.
I also highly recommend the book mentioned in the article, which I read before starting Clinical Pastoral Education a few summers ago. It's an incredibly poignant example of the issues the article raises.
September 20, 2009
A Doctor for Disease, a Shaman for the Soul

“Doctors are good at disease,” Mr. Lee said as he encircled the patient, Chang Teng Thao, a widower from Laos, in an invisible “protective shield” traced in the air with his finger. “The soul is the shaman’s responsibility.”At Mercy Medical Center in Merced, where roughly four patients a day are Hmong from northern Laos, healing includes more than IV drips, syringes and blood glucose monitors. Because many Hmong rely on their spiritual beliefs to get them through illnesses, the hospital’s new Hmong shaman policy, the country’s first, formally recognizes the cultural role of traditional healers like Mr. Lee, inviting them to perform nine approved ceremonies in the hospital, including “soul calling” and chanting in a soft voice.

The policy and a novel training program to introduce shamans to the principles of Western medicine are part of a national movement to consider patients’ cultural beliefs and values when deciding their medical treatment. The approach is being adopted by dozens of medical institutions and clinics across the country that cater to immigrant, refugee and ethnic-minority populations.

Certified shamans, with their embroidered jackets and official badges, have the same unrestricted access to patients given to clergy members.

Shamans do not take insurance or other payment, although they have been known to accept a live chicken.

A recent survey of 60 hospitals in the United States by the Joint Commission, the country’s largest hospital accrediting group, found that the hospitals were increasingly embracing cultural beliefs, driven sometimes by marketing, whether by adding calcium- and iron-rich Korean seaweed soup to the maternity ward menu at Good Samaritan Hospital in Los Angeles, on the edge of Koreatown, or providing birthing doulas for Somali women in Minneapolis.

In Merced, about 120 miles southeast of San Francisco, the Mercy hospital shaman program was designed to strengthen the trust between doctors and the Hmong community — a form of healing in the broadest sense. It tries to redress years of misunderstanding between the medical establishment and the Hmong, whose lives in the mountains of Laos were irreparably altered by the Vietnam War. Hmong soldiers, Mr. Lee among them, were recruited by the C.I.A. in the 1960s to fight the covert war against Communist insurgents in Laos and afterward, to avoid retribution, were forced to flee to the refugee camps, with most resettling in California’s Central Valley and in the Midwest.

During a seven-week training program at Mercy Medical Center, 89 shamans learned elements of Western-style medicine, including germ theory. They visited operating rooms and peered through microscopes for the first time. Looking at heart cells, one shaman, an elderly woman, asked the pathologist to show her a “happy heart.”

Designed to defuse the Hmong fear of Western medicine, the program has “built trust both ways,” said Dr. John Paik-Tesch, director of the Merced Family Medicine Residency Program, which trains resident physicians at Mercy Medical Center.

Since the refugees began arriving 30 years ago, health professionals like Marilyn Mochel, a registered nurse who helped create the hospital’s policy on shamans, have wrestled with how best to resolve immigrants’ health needs given the Hmong belief system, in which surgery, anesthesia, blood transfusions and other common procedures are taboo.

The result has been a high incidence of ruptured appendixes, complications from diabetes, and end-stage cancers, with fears of medical intervention and delays in treatment exacerbated by “our inability to explain to patients how physicians make decisions and recommendations,” Ms. Mochel said.

The consequences of miscommunication between a Hmong family and the hospital in Merced was the subject of the book “The Spirit Catches You and You Fall Down: A Hmong Child, Her American Doctors, and The Collision of Two Cultures” by Anne Fadiman (Farrar, Straus and Giroux, 1997). The book follows a young girl’s treatment for epilepsy and the hospital’s failure to recognize the family’s deep-seated cultural beliefs. The fallout from the case and the book prompted much soul-searching at the hospital and helped lead to its shaman policy.

The Hmong believe that souls, like errant children, are capable of wandering off or being captured by malevolent spirits, causing illness. Mr. Lee’s ceremony for the diabetic man was a spiritual inoculation, meant to protect his soul from being kidnapped by his late wife and thus extending his “life visa.”

Such ceremonies, which last 10 minutes to 15 minutes and must be cleared with a patient’s roommates, are tame versions of elaborate rituals that abound in Merced, especially on weekends, when suburban living rooms and garages are transformed into sacred spaces and crowded by over a hundred friends and family members. Shamans like Ma Vue, a 4-foot, 70-something dynamo with a tight bun, go into trances for hours, negotiating with spirits in return for sacrificed animals — a pig, for instance, was laid out recently on camouflage fabric on a living room floor.

Certain elements of Hmong healing ceremonies, like the use of gongs, finger bells and other boisterous spiritual accelerators, require the hospital’s permission. Janice Wilkerson, the hospital’s “integration” director, said it was also unlikely that the hospital would allow ceremonies involving animals, like one in which evil spirits are transferred onto a live rooster that struts across a patient’s chest.

“The infection control nurse would have a few problems with that,” Ms. Wilkerson said.

A turning point in the skepticism of staff members occurred a decade ago, when a major Hmong clan leader was hospitalized here with a gangrenous bowel. Dr. Jim McDiarmid, a clinical psychologist and director of the residency program, said that in deference hundreds of well-wishers, a shaman was allowed to perform rituals, including placing a long sword at the door to ward off evil spirits. The man miraculously recovered. “That made a big impression, especially on the residents,” Dr. McDiarmid said.

Social support and beliefs affect a patient’s ability to rebound from illness, Dr. McDiarmid added, pointing out that over half of the people who respond toantidepressants do so because of the placebo effect.

One of the goals of the new policy, Ms. Mochel said, is to speed up medical intervention by having a healing ceremony coincide with a hospital stay, rather than waiting days for a patient to confer with family and clan leaders after a ceremony at home.

Attitudes toward Western doctors have begun to loosen as young, assimilated Hmong-Americans assume more powerful roles in the family. Dr. Kathie Culhane-Pera, the associate medical director of the West Side Community Health Center in St. Paul, home to the country’s largest concentration of Hmong, said she worked informally with shamans, obtaining permission from the hospital to turn off the smoke alarms for incense, for example. Signs of the growing movement in cross-cultural health care can be found on the Navajo reservation in northern Arizona, where the federal Indian Health Service has three medicine men on staff and recently instituted a training program similar to Mercy’s.

At White Memorial Medical Center in Los Angeles, Dr. Hector Flores, the chairman of the family medicine department, refers patients to, traditional Hispanic healers, curanderos, on a case-by-case basis. The facility also trains community members as “promotores de salud,” or health promoters. Dr. Flores called it a “low-tech approach in which the physician is not the end-all, but part of a collaborative team geared toward prevention.”

At the hospital in Merced, Dr. Lesley Xiong, 26, a resident physician, grew up as the granddaughter of two distinguished shamans. Though she chose to become a doctor, she said there was ample room for both approaches. “If I were sick, I would want a shaman to be there,” Dr. Xiong said. “But I’d go to the hospital.”

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